Tuesday, November 5, 2019

October 2019 Recap

October is always crazy busy at our house and this year was no different. I blinked and it was over. Here are the highlights from our fun filled month.


1. You know it's a good October when you're cheering for the Cardinals in the post season. They had a good run, but ended up being swept by the eventual world series champions, Washington Nationals. I loved sharing the post season excitement with my boy, who were completely into the post season hype. We miss watching baseball already.

 2. Fall ball ended with a few freezing evenings at the ball park. I missed both of their last games, either working or home keeping T warm. Here's Rowan at the last game I got to go see. He's improved so much this year, learning how to be quite the hitter in coach pitch, even after missing all the pre-season practices with a broken arm. It was just me at this game, which meant I got to go to dinner with just Rowan which was a special treat.
 This led to lots of confusion when the kid in the Cubs shirt asked if we could turn the TV to the Cardinals game. Believe me I know how unnatural this situation is.
 3. Fall finally arrived, then quickly turned to all out winter. The first fall feeling evening called for a bonfire and smores. The boys went on their fall campout this month as well, but I don't have any pictures of that. I hear it was a smashing success at a camping location they've never been before.


 4. October also means time for tree planting. We've been waiting all year for fall to arrive so we could finally plant a tree at third base. There is always an argument about the location of third base and a tree was a perfect solution to this problem. We got a little red bud because it's the state tree and because this particular location needed a smaller tree to avoid messing with sewer lines. We planted it over fall break when we were all sick with a cough/cold situation and struggled to do anything productive. Zane felt miserable, as you can see, since he didn't have any energy to help with the tree planting.


 5. We had previously planned on going to the farm on fall break, but all our fun activities had to be cancelled since we all felt miserable and had no energy. We tried to put together a few fun things, in between naps. Cut out Halloween cookies aren't a yearly tradition, but we did it this year in our attempt to do fun things on our pathetic fall break.

 6. We also went back to the pumpkin patch, where three years ago Zane and Rowan had posed with a little pumpkin for a picture that would announce we were having another boy. Here they are three years later, our littlest pumpkin isn't that little anymore.

 After pumpkins we headed to Pops for soda and dinner. Pops is overrun by honeybees on their patio, which gave Rowan a chance to find his bee whispering skills. It also gave me a chance to tell the kids about having honey bees growing up and my dad killing all of them when threats of killer bees heading to Oklahoma came out. Such a dad thing to do.


 7. Our first official Halloween activity this year was the Cub Scouts Trunk or Treat. This was supposed to be outside, but do to freezing temperatures and rain it was moved inside. We'd worked on all sorts of Harry Potter decorations for our car, that we ended up not being able to us, but everyone still had a fantastic time. This was the costume Thatcher had planned on wearing for Halloween, but we couldn't fit any clothes under it, so we had to switch it to the very warm dinosaur costume.
 Luna and Voldermort once more, our go to costumes.
 The giant spider was originally supposed to be on top of our car, but this worked too I guess. Throw the skulls into the cauldrons came about with little to know thought, but it was a huge hit.
 Batman was very excited to see his pal Woody.


 8. Zane decided, once again, to celebrate his heart birthday at school this year instead of end of the year summer birthday celebrations. He's done this every year so far and it's proven to be a great experience. Each year he tells his class/teacher about his experience as a heart warrior and why he celebrates his heart birthdays.
 This year his sweet teacher gave him special claps for his heart birthday at the whole school assembly on Friday. I could have never dreamed of being blessed with such a supportive and loving school family, nine years ago when he was diagnosed. I might have cried a little at the assembly, just so grateful for these wonderful teachers who truly adore my kids.

Here is Zane on his ninth heart birthday, with our traditional heart shaped cake to celebrate all the miracles thought brought us to this day.
 9. I got to go with the first graders on the most ridiculous field trip, potentially ever in the history of field trips, this month as well. This day it was thirty five degrees and spitting freezing rain. Oh and that morning the pumpkin patch/farm was out of power due to the storms from the night before. So there were no lights in the buildings and no heat. There was one building with a few animals to feed and one where they could ride horses, everything else was outside in the rain and mud. Sounds like a great time, right? It was fully miserable. Rowan and I lasted almost an hour and a half before we bailed on the whole thing, went home, snuggled on the couch, and watched a movie. After we regained felling in our hands and feet it was a wonderful way to spend an afternoon.



 Rowan looks exactly like his father, especially when he's in this hat.


 10. The October birthday party was supposed to be at Able's house this year, but Able was sick that day so we had a make shift one at my house the following evening. Pumpkins were carved, smores were had, and a little tiny hedgehog toddled around my house. So cute!
 This was the first year that both of my big boys carved their pumpkins by themselves. Grandma tried to help Rowan, but from what I hear he refused all help and had a clear vision of what he wanted his pumpkin to look like.


 11. We ended out the month with Zane's yearly cardiology appointment. This is a day that Zane and I spend together and always includes white mac and cheese from Panera Bread. I think the mac and cheese makes all the surgeries and doctors visits worthwhile to Zane. This year it was freezing cold outside, raining, and everything was running behind in the clinic so it was a long, drawn out, process. However, we got great news from the doctor who said his valve is working wonderfully with almost no regurgitation. This hopefully means that Zane won't need another valve replacement for a good long while. I think he will outgrow this valve quicker than the experts think since he's bound to be a huge man. I'm still preparing myself for another surgery as a teenager and if he ends up not needing it until later that will be a pleasant surprise. Never again will I be caught completely off guard by the inevitable.




 Freezing to death while waiting to see the doctor.




Monday, November 4, 2019

Halloween 2019

Halloween week always coincides with Red Ribbon Week and Halloween was dress up like your favorite storybook character day. This year Zane was a penguin for Mr. Poppers Penguin and my favorite book Penguin Problems while Rowan was the classic Curious George. It should be noted that I bought this Curious George costume from a resale store, for three dollars, when Zane was three. Zane and Rowan have both been Curious George for Halloween and this costume has been worn frequently for the past six years. I was thrilled that it somehow still fit Rowan so he could wear it for storybook character day this year.


 The boys fall parties were Thursday afternoon at school. I find it utterly pointless to go to these parties, as I end up splitting time between two rooms, don't really do anything, and then we just leave after maybe thirty minutes there. I think the boys mainly want me to pick them up from school.
 It was freezing cold last week so I wasn't sure how well trick or treating was going to go. We got everyone thoroughly bundled up and hoped for the best. I bought the astronaut outfit at a trivia night in St. Louis this summer and Rowan has been patiently waiting to wear on Halloween ever since. He was able to get a few layers on underneath it as well. I was an alien to go with my little astronaut. My witch tutu doubled nicely for an alien tutu this year.


 Thatcher was originally going to be a super hero of his choosing, which he wears around the house all day, everyday. However, with it being freezing cold Thursday we had to make a last minute costume change to a warmer choice. This dinosaur costume has also been used by everyone and brings me great joy. He had three layers of clothes on under it and added his Spiderman ski mask and shark mittens just to really push the whole look over the top, both in warmth and cuteness.

 Here's the whole crew. Zach is Voldemort because he's always Voldemort. This spooky spider is from our Cub Scout trunk or treat event, it's the huge spider from Harry Potter, obviously.
 This year was Thatcher's first attempt at actually trick or treating. He trick or treated at the trunk or treat last week and kind of got the hang of things. He killed it on Thursday, adorableness at an all time high. Nothing like al toddler begging for candy. He made it around the spooky cul-de-sac and then down a few houses on our street before he was cold and tired and ready to go home. That's about as long as I wanted to trick or treat as well so we headed back.

 Zane's best buddy, who lives in our neighborhood, came over to trick or treat with us. She and Zane are the same person and have such a good time together. I was so glad she joined in our fun. She was Hermione and Zane was a Dementor both from Harry Potter of course.
 Our little dinosaur and Lord Voldemort
 Here are all the kids while they briefly were trick or treating together.
Rowan eventually met up with his neighbor friend and trick or treated with him while Zane and his friend went with Zach all over the entire neighborhood.
 While everyone else was out freezing Thatcher and I were home working on the names of all the different kinds of candy in his pumpkin and in our candy bowl. It's high time he learned the difference between a Snickers and a Kit Kat. Thatcher was very generous when handing out candy, which was fine since I had bought way to much candy for such a cold night.

 Rowan came back after maybe an hour and joined in on the fun as well.
 These boys handed candy out until Zane got home and everyone headed to bed with a full sugar overload.

I wish that some year Halloween would be a nice fall evening instead of freezing cold, but that hasn't happened in a long time. Everyone was exhausted Friday and came down off their sugar high hard over the weekend. And so ends another fantastic Halloween in our hood.