Friday, February 22, 2019

Rowan's Sixth Birthday Week: Birthday Interview


Rowan's 6th Birthday Week:  6yr Old Interview
1.How old will you be on your birthday? Six
2.Who is your best friend? Dawson
3.What is your favorite thing to do? Jump on a trampoline
4.What is your favorite color? Pink
5.What is your favorite food? Broccoli*
6. What do you like to do with your family? Hug
7.What is your favorite toy? Nothing
8.What do you want to be when you grow up? Worker guy and cowboy*
9. What makes you happy? Hugs
10.What makes you sad? Dying
11.What is your favorite movie? Despicable Me 3
12.What is your favorite book? Go Dog Go
13.Where is your favorite place to go? The zoo
14.What do you like to do outside? Play baseball*
15.What is your favorite animal? Bird
16.Who is your favorite person? Mamma*
17.What was your favorite present? The basketball goal for his door (they promptly lost pieces to this so we can't put it together)
18.What do you like to cuddle when you sleep? A Lion ( sometime during the past stressful year he was having nightmares and I told him if he said prayers with his Lion it would protect him and give him sweet dreams. He now has collected multiple Lions.)
19.Who is favorite Super Hero? Iron Man
20.What is your favorite song? Greatest Showman
Answers with *beside them are the one with the same answers as last year.  

Thursday, February 21, 2019

Rowan's Sixth Birthday Week: A Birthday Letter

You've been lighting up our lives for six years now, since you made your entrance into the world that snowy day in St. Louis. I cannot believe it. Your smile is contagious. You give hugs and snuggles freely, and they are the highlight of all of my days. You feel things deeply and this past year wasn't easy for anyone. I know you were scared and I'm sure very confused about what all was going on. Through everything you were such a great sport, maybe a little more emotional than usual, but you rolled with the punches so well. You were the person who comforted me the most during some of the darkest days. You would curl up in my lap and tell me you loved me, giving me kisses and pats through it all. You would rub my hands when they hurt.  You kept Thatcher entertained, and you were a constant companion to your big brother. When he came home from surgery and couldn't sleep in the top bunk you insisted on sleeping at the foot of the his bed in the office, on a tiny coat, just so you could be close to him. You're fiercely loyal, a trait I hope you always keep.

This year you also started school. I think you were excited to be going to school with Zane, getting to ride the same bus, and get to see him during the day just like you had dreamed about for the previous two years. The transition was difficult and you spent a lot of evenings exhausted with an empty hug sack that needed refilling. I so miss our days at home together. I miss our conversations as we grocery shopped, our adventures, and our snuggles on the couch. However, I have loved watching you thrive at school. You've made so many friends and have learned so much. You have had to work harder at learning how to read than your brother had to since you were so much younger when you started. You have been dedicated to learning all your words and have practiced everyday. As things have begun to click you have been thrilled, and a little surprised to find that you can read books and signs, and all sorts of things. You are so very smart and have loads of self confidence.

At home you continue to be an amazing brother. Thatcher adores you and you tolerate all his silly antics smashingly. You are quick to help get him whatever he wants, get his favorite shows on for him, or indulge in whatever game he wants to play with you. You and Zane continue to fight like brothers, but at the same time love each other deeply. When you want to you play together very well, but there are definitely times where you fit into the baby brother role all to well, annoying Zane because you can. I love watching the three of you together, it's my absolute favorite thing in the world.

Today you got to wake up super early thanks to my clock some how getting the time changed on it without me knowing. I wonder how that happened? I can't figure out how to change it back. So I came and got you out of bed at what ended up being 5:40am not 6:40am. So you got an extra hour to play with your new presents. This afternoon I came and ate lunch with you at school. You were rocking the kindergarten birthday hat and were ecstatic to see me.

 

 
This evening we ate your favorite dinner of pork tenderloin and broccoli, with a cupcake for dessert. Then it was time for a Cub Scout meeting. I usually stay home with Thatcher during these meetings, but since Daddy was out of town I got to come join in the fun. I mainly chased Thatcher around, but at the end your big brother orchestrated the whole pack singing to you while he danced around you like a crazy person. That is real love my son. So glad you had such a fun birthday.
 



My prayer for you this upcoming year is that you may have more laughs and smiles and a lot less tears. I pray that you continue to grow and mature, soaking up every minute of your fun little life.  I pray that you never stop crawling up into my lap for snuggles and never stop requesting hugs. May you continue to exude confidence, work hard at everything you do, stay loyal, and love fiercely.

Love you little man
Happy Birthday
Love
Mamma

Tuesday, February 19, 2019

Rowan's Sixth Birthday Week: Baseball Parties

We partied all weekend to celebrate Rowan turning six. This was the first time that Rowan had friends from school come over to play. I couldn't handle, or afford, a party with the whole class to we just invited three of his best little buddies to come over for a two hour play date. It was very low key, but made Rowan's dreams of having his friends come over come true. Sadly it twenty degrees outside all day so they didn't get to run around and enjoy our huge backyard, which is what they all really wanted to be doing.



 We experimented with buying a cheap tank of helium for these parties as well. It worked well and was tons of fun, but they regular balloons only lasted one day. The giant six is currently floating above our kitchen cabinets, where I assume it was be for the foreseeable future. Turns out helium balloons and really tall ceilings aren't a great combination.


 We braved the frigid temperatures for a few swings at the baseball piñata. I had to convince a mother that I keeping boys from killing each other with baseball bats is literally my super power, so not to worry about a piñata at my house. In classic Zane fashion, he took one hit at the baseball and sent the whole thing flying over the fence. It had to be rescued by tiny Rowan and then rehung so the little boys could get a few more hits in.


 Rowan got presents that I would have never thought to buy him, random pokemon and fortnite things that his friends are into and he was very excited about. They ran around inside, chasing Zane, and building forts, then everyone went home with bags of candy. It was very simple and Rowan loved it, so I count that as win!



This is our second baseball party. Zane had one for his seventh birthday when all his little baseball team came over. I did actually save most of the decorations and cake toppers, so it was somewhat cheaper than usual. Had I known from the outset that I would have three boys I would have kept all the decorations, from every party, as I'm sure Thatcher will want to do all the same things that Zane and Rowan has done. From here on out I'm keeping everything! Last time we made a big cake that looked like a baseball for one party and a field cake for the other one. This time we did baseball cupcakes and the big field cake, with better baselines, for the family party.

The family party was Sunday evening since both Zach and Abbey are leaving town later this week. Per usual someone ended up sick at the party. I swear my parties are absolutely notorious for this. Last year Zane was vomiting at Thatcher's party, I think the year before that Brendan was lying on the floor of the bathroom sick during Rowan's. Without fail, this time of year someone is sick. This year it was poor Maggie who looked completely  miserable. So the Richards didn't get to stay and celebrate too long, but little E got to stay and play longer, which was all Rowan really cared about. 

Look at this face, isn't that the face of a six year old. I cannot believe it!


 After dinner the boys braved the freezing cold to play with the pop rockets that Grammie and Papa had sent. They were a big hit, even in sub freezing temperatures. Thanks Grammie!

 Meanwhile inside toddle town was entertaining everyone else. Thatcher and Alice take a little bit to warm up to each other, but once they do they are just adorable to watch play with each other. They were doing puzzles with Grandma, chasing each other, and having a few small disagreements about who should be wearing which hat, all while Alice was dressed as Super Girl. I mean come on how cute are these two little nuggets. I love that they will grow up together and hopefully be the best of friends.

Those were the parties! I didn't take a lot of pictures, but I do think Rowan had a good time. Zach is leaving tomorrow and will be gone on Rowan's actual birthday so hopefully we celebrated enough before hand to suffice. Thursday we have a Den Meeting in the evening as well, so his actual birthday might not be a ton of fun. However, there are more presents and there is sure to be more cake of some kind!














Monday, February 18, 2019

Rowan's Sixth Birthday Week: These are a Few of Your Favorite Things

With Rowan it is really hard to pin down what his favorite things are. With Zane it is always pretty simple to nail some things down, he loves snakes/penguins and baseball, always. Rowan is less passionate about things in general and doesn't have any big obsessions currently. So favorite might be a strong word, but here are the things that Rowan enjoys at six.

When Rowan is in the right mood he loves Legos, but he isn't always in this mood. He gets Lego sets a few times a year and in between those few times he doesn't beg for them or ask to do old ones that we have saved. However, when he is in the Lego building mood he can speed through a set pretty quickly. I do feel like in general he is better at building Legos by himself, versus Zane who desperately wants you to sit with him the entire time he works on a set.

Rowan's new thing to do this past year is to go play with his new little neighbor friend J. I didn't know there was a little boy, just his age, on the cul-de-sac across the street from us until we met him at the bus stop the first week of school. They are both in kindergarten and both love playing outside. His new little friend loves basketball and most days after school, weather permitting, Zane and Rowan spend an hour or so playing over there or in our backyard. Sadly we don't have a basketball goal at our house, so usually they go across the street. J's mother is very sweet and it's nice having friends in the neighborhood. Sometimes they ride bikes or scooters, but usually they are playing basketball or some made up magical game involving sticks. Perfect!





Rowan claims he still loves baseball and was very sad when he had to miss the fall season of tball last year with a broken arm. He and Zane rarely will play catch with each other by themselves. For some reason they just can't manage to play catch or do any sort of baseball playing without Zach's presence. In good news Zach is always willing to play catch, work on throwing, and have batting practice in our backyard. I'm hoping this year Rowan might put forth at least a smidge of effort towards getting better at baseball. He's very good with no effort so I would be interested to see what just a tiny bit of hard work would do for him. This is his last year of t-ball and I think he is very excited about the possibility of coach pitch. He is currently trying to convince J that baseball is just as fun as basketball, but I don't think J is buying it.






Over the past couple months Rowan has become a huge fan of board games. I think this is partly to do with the nintendo switch breaking and screen time being cut down to basically nothing. He asks me pretty much everyday if it can be a game night. Game night with a two year old can be tricky, but we indulge him as often as possible. Again, this is something that technically Zane and Rowan could do by themselves, away from Thatcher, but that doesn't seem to ever happen. They both really need Zach and I both to be playing with them for it to be fun. Rowan also is a huge fan of Go-fish and card games as well. My personal favorite thing to play with him is Pictionary, because he will draw the tiniest thing, with such confidence, and it never looks like anything he is suppose to be drawing, but he stands by it one hundred percent. Also, Apples to Apples Junior, where you are given a word and everyone picks a picture that they think best represents that word. Rowan will pick the most random things, again standing by them firmly, it's lots of fun!




Rowan's biggest request for Christmas was a skateboard. He just had to have one and was so excited about it. He had been trying to learn how to ride it, with not a ton of success, but he was enjoying playing with it none the less. Sadly he left his new skateboard in the neighbor's driveway and it came to an untimely end. In good news J got him a new one for his birthday so he can get back on the board any day now.





Since starting school this year Rowan has become quite the artist. He works on drawings and letters frequently, but his most common drawing as of late has been his "love papers," as he calls them. They consist of lots of hearts and I luv you, spelled wrong. He sends these to his Grandparents and Great Grandparents, in birthday cards, Valentine's Day cards, and get well soon cards. His spelling is improving and he does enjoy trying to write stories or letters to people now a days as well.








The biggest change this kiddo has gone through this year has been starting school. The majority of the time he loves it and comes home with stories about all his new friends and fun things they did in his different classes. He is very confident, I think overly so at times, about all that he has learned. He claims he is the best reader in the class and is "perfect at math." (It should be noted that last statement was followed by him telling me that eight minus eight was eight, so maybe not perfect.) He has finished all his sight words and his reading is improving everyday, but I don't know that he is the best reader in kindergarten. He does enjoy working on new words, trying to read books, and doing his different learning apps on the tablet in the evening. I think his favorite part of school is all the new friends he has made and being in the same building as Zane is always a plus. 






Last, but not least, Rowan's best buddy remains his cousin Everett. He still requests to play with him everyday, even though neither our schedule nor their schedule really allows for that. They still play pretty well together and seem to have lots of fun/adventures when they do get to hang out.
I personally like to think that Rowan's favorite thing is cuddling with me. He remains very cuddly and is just so little that he still can fit perfectly in my lap, even if there are some long boney legs to deal with these days. As I've been looking through the pictures over this past year I have found lots of pictures of me hugging this kiddo. Kindergarten really puts a drain on your hug sack so I have happily spent a lot time giving this kiddo hugs and loving this past year. I hope that never changes.






Friday, February 15, 2019

Rowan's Sixth Birthday Week: A Year in Pictures



February 2018
 
 I miss having Rowan at home with me. He was so sweet and cuddly and just spark of happiness I needed by my side last year.
Fifth birthday Lego Party!



 
March 2018
 
This year Rowan has really begun to love board games.





 
April 2018

 Easter 2018
Little scientist

Back to t-ball this spring, sadly he missed the fall season with a broken arm.

 As hard as Zane's year was last year, Rowan's was just as hard. He was scared and didn't even know why or what was going to happen, or what he should do, or how it was going to affect him. Through it all Rowan tried to keep me happy and was there being the best brother to Zane I could ever ask for.
 First baseball tournament medal. He was so proud of himself.
 During the spring campout Rowan got to wear his Lion shirt for the first time. He was so excited to finally get to be a part of Cub Scouts with big brother.
 
May 2018
 




 Last day of pre-k!
The picture below was from the morning of pre-op day, poor Rowan was terrified. The morning of surgery Zane made sure to go give Rowan hugs and kisses before we left. As a parent it was so hard leaving on child, who I knew was scared and sad, to go be with the other child who was sick and needed me more. It was like having my heart torn into pieces.


June 2018
 
Thank you to everyone who parented and loved on this kiddo when I couldn't be there. Thank you for keeping him entertained and dealing with all his emotions while Zach and I were gone.
Rowan was a great post op companion, helping Zane every step of the way.
Rowan's style never ceases to entertain me.

 Our little baseball boy had a great season. Sadly, I missed most of it, but he had a great time.

 Sometimes Rowan requests a buzz cut and it cracks me up every time I see pictures of him with one. Silly boy!
 
July 2018
 

Rowan was thrilled to finally have Zane back in his room with him.

We survived ten weeks of sternal precautions!


 
August 2018
 
Rowan remains my little snuggle bug. I adore that he still fits in my lap ad wants to cuddle.
Arkansas vaca



 The grade school journey begins.

 
September 2018
 
His baseball team got third place over all and I've never see someone be so proud of their little trophy.

 Brotherly silliness
 Then began our broken arm debacle. He was such a trooper through it all.

 
October 2018
 
Cast number two!
 Always cuddling
 The many costumes of Rowan

 
November 2018
 

 Brand new arm
 Field Trip with Mom
 Meeting his new cousin!
 
December 2018
 
Kinder lunch!




 January 2019

As Thatcher gets bigger his attacks on Rowan have become more frequent. Rowan, for the most part tolerated this well. I do occasionally have to remind him that he is older and can just get up or take whatever thing Thatcher might be wanting to throw at him.



 This year I have loved watching Rowan with baby Worth. He is such a good baby cuddler and big cousin.
 Rowan has loved being a Cub Scout this year. This was at his first Pinewood Derby Race.
 Rowan sadly is still the one who is usually crying and usually the one who is hurt. It's a good day if we can get through it without Rowan bleeding.

February 2019

Accidentally matching with Thatcher, what could be more cute.

 I am always covered in boys.
 Valentine's Day box
 Proud heart brother